Jenny on Nova
What were you hoping for?
Someone I could vibe with, have a proper laugh with, and not cringe at.
First impressions?
When Nova arrived, hoodie, swagger and all, I thought: “Oh God, it’s the rude boy from year 10.” But then he smiled, apologised for being late, called it a red flag himself, and we were laughing in seconds. I was unexpectedly charmed.
What did you talk about?
It was a proper easy-flowing conversation. He asked questions, I asked questions, and neither of us monologued. Rare and refreshing.
Most awkward moment?
There were no awkward moments.
Good table manners?
Impeccable. No open-mouth chewing, no cutlery carnage and not one slurp.
Best thing about Nova?
He’s funny, proper gentleman vibes, and totally down to earth. He gave me his jacket at the end of the night, and not in a cheesy way. Also, his dog impression – 10 out of 10 ridiculous, but I was crying laughing.
Would you introduce Nova to your friends?
Definitely, he’d end up in the group chat.
Describe Nova in three words
Funny, grounded, surprisingly smooth.
Q&A
Fancy a blind date?
Show
Blind date is Saturday’s dating column: every week, two
strangers are paired up for dinner and drinks, and then spill the beans
to us, answering a set of questions. This runs, with a photograph we
take of each dater before the date, in Saturday magazine (in the
UK) and online at theguardian.com every Saturday. It’s been running since 2009 – you can read all about how we put it together here.
What questions will I be asked?
We
ask about age, location, occupation, hobbies, interests and the type of
person you are looking to meet. If you do not think these questions
cover everything you would like to know, tell us what’s on your mind.
Can I choose who I match with?
No,
it’s a blind date! But we do ask you a bit about your interests,
preferences, etc – the more you tell us, the better the match is likely
to be.
Can I pick the photograph?
No, but don’t worry: we’ll choose the nicest ones.
What personal details will appear?
Your first name, job and age.
How should I answer?
Honestly
but respectfully. Be mindful of how it will read to your date, and that
Blind date reaches a large audience, in print and online.
Will I see the other person’s answers?
No. We may edit yours and theirs for a range of reasons, including length, and we may ask you for more details.
Will you find me The One?
We’ll try! Marriage! Babies!
Can I do it in my home town?
Only if it’s in the UK. Many of our applicants live in London, but we would love to hear from people living elsewhere.
How to apply
Email blind.date@theguardian.com
What do you think Nova made of you?
I think he liked me. We chatted nonstop and shared a cheeky kiss at the end.
Did you go on somewhere?
Yes.
And … did you kiss?
A little one to seal the night. Classic end to an unexpectedly lovely date.
If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
Just the six-minute wait and thinking every man was my date. I was drained before the poor guy even arrived.
Marks out of 10?
Strong nine.
Would you meet again?
Yes – I’d like to see where this goes.
Nova on Jenny
What were you hoping for?
A free meal and good vibes – I got both!
First impressions?
Damn, this girl can drink.
What did you talk about?
We spent the night comparing accent imitations. I’m no good at accents, but I can do a wicked dog impression.
Most awkward moment
The waiter asked if she had allergies and she misheard and replied, “Thanks, you too.”
Good table manners?
We both agreed not to downgrade each other on this, but it feels like the classic Prisoner's dilemma: are we both going to cooperate?
Best thing about Jenny?
She held her own in an arm-wrestle.
Would you introduce Jenny to your friends?
Hell yeah!
Describe Jenny in three words
Amusing, charismatic and animated.
What do you think Jenny made of you?
A swell guy? I am unsure.
Did you go on somewhere?
We went to a bar.
And … did you kiss?
A wise man told me to never kiss’n’tell.
If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
As she was trying to show me something on her phone, there was a guy’s fully nude video on there. Wish that never happened, but it was funny.
Marks out of 10?
Nine – one point deducted for the above (I’m joking, it was more funny than bad).
Would you meet again?
I think we may.
Jenny and Nova ate at Fremantle Bar & KitchenLondon E16. Fancy a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com
